How to Be a Better Leader
If you were to build a house, you would begin with a blueprint. This blueprint proves helpful because it contains more than directions on how to build a house. It also describes the finished home.
So, what does this have to do with leadership?
Last month I asked an audience of leaders to tell me the characteristics of an ideal leader. Their answers were (in the order collected):
A good listener
Clarity of purpose
Attitude of service
Leads by example
Willing to act without complete knowledge
Empowers other people
Adapts to change.
This is essentially the same list I receive from other audiences when I ask this question. From this comes some valuable insights:
Notice what the list contains. All of these characteristics relate to the human side of leadership. That's interesting because I often hear people minimize this side of leadership with terms like "soft" or "touchy-feely." Applying these characteristics requires more strength than not.
Notice what the list excludes. Absent from this list (and all lists from other programs) are characteristics such as stern, mean, serious, short-tempered, vindictive, strict, angry, harsh, punitive, controlling, violent, or ruthless. And that's interesting because many popular representations of leadership emphasize at least one of these "hard" characteristics. These characteristics are the refuge of those who lack the strength or the skills to apply the human side of leadership.
How about you? How would you rate yourself as a leader compared to the list of positive characteristics? If you were to survey the people who report to you, how would they describe your leadership? Would they list features from the "soft" list or from the "hard" list? Could you become more effective by improving upon any of the "soft" characteristics? And how about the other leaders in your organization? Do they truly maximize human potential?
People want leaders who treat them with genuine compassion, courtesy, and respect. They want leaders who help them become more successful. They want leaders who inspire them with a vision for a better world and show them how to go there.
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